NEW BLOG.............ALERT ALERT!!!!

Come find me here.........

theadventuresofmindye.blogspot.com

This blog was the MISadventures.............now it's time for some ADVENTURES!!!!!!!!!!

So who am I?

For years and years I've been "the Boys & Girls Club Lady" or "a branch executive" or hell, I've been an employee.

And that got me where?????  

It got me a few boxes of my stuff.  Not all, just some.

It got me to cry myself asleep.   To be angry and hateful and disposable.

I look at all my social media sites, including this blog, and I always refer to myself as a branch executive.  First.

Not a daughter, sister, surrogate mother, best friend or auntie.

So now, I need to think about who I am.   Who I want to be.

What I want to be known for.   What I stand for.

What do I want to be now that I've grown up?

And where do I want to go?  What do I want to see?  

I have lots to think about.    I'll take my time.

I've not posted in a long time.

Not because I don't have anything to say.

But because I have too much to say.

I promise to myself that I'll come back and write more.

It's good for my soul. And my memories.

For now, goodnight.

Random me

Things I like today....

So let's meet someone already!

I am on all sorts of committes and commissions and events.

Some of which are for purely selfish reasons.

I want to spend some time with a great man.  That's all.   Lol.

So I'm also on a few, a lot, of online dating sites.

The things I see that men do is crazy!

Here are a few things I keep running across....

-the man with the baseball hat to the side, or cocked off his head or while he's wearing a suit.  I should preface this by saying my age range is 31-45.  If you're that old and dont know how to wear a ball cap because you think it's 1995 and you might be mistaken for a rapper, I don't have any time for that.

-the man who poses in his underwear.

-the man who poses lovingly or flirtatiously with a woman.  If you are trying to date, why would you post a pic like this?  I clearly know the difference between a friend in a pic and a something else.  Something else usually is a man licking a woman's neck or taking a pic while rubbing someone's ass. Lame.

-you have a few sentences to make an impact.  Referencing how well endowed you are seems so desperate, don't you think?

I've spoken to/skyped some very nice guys.....but they live far away.....New Jersey, canada, Tennessee.   Sad story.  I'm not going anywhere.

Where oh where are the great AZ men????

Please go to this page and see what I mean!


http://badonlinedatingprofiles.tumblr.com/archive

The Birthday

When we first started talking about my birthday,  to my sisters and I  talked about going on a trip.  We also talked about sister tattoos. Then Brittney said she wanted to throw a party.

Let me tell you......it was quite the party!

Soooo here we go again.....

I've taken a break.  A long break from my blog.

I went offline because there's a weird thing about random people reading about my life.

But I love blogging.  It makes me happy.

So here I am.